Letting go to the attachment of how things should be creates room for a peaceful mind and allows our situation to transform with more ease.
What you resist will persist until you surrender to it and allow what is in your highest good to flow into your life. This is why its important to be present so you can notice the signs and messages when they are presented. Don't put yourself in a box - perhaps something even greater than you had planned or even imagined is on its way to you! Put your intention out there, be in vibrational alignment wit it and let the universe bring it to you.